Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Camille

 
 This little girl has stolen my heart. I seriously can't believe how adorable she is.  Every time I look at her I can't believe she's mine.  She is soooo stinkin' happy.  She's all smiles all the time.  Unless she's tired, of course. 

I'm a different mom than I was with my other babies.  For good and for bad, I think.  Camille is definitely the 3rd child.  I bet I could count on my fingers and toes the number of baths she's had.  She also spends a good amount of time crawling around on the floor by herself because I'm busy with the house/kids.  However, she's luckier than the other two.  I've learned some things that have been good for my mothering.  She has never had a pharmaceutical in her body, never been to the doctor except a well-check (knock on wood).  She's never had anything besides breastmilk, until recently I've given her homemade broth, some cooked veggies, and fermented cod liver oil (which she gobbles up, btw).  She co-slept with us until 6 months old, and still sleeps in our room, which I love (she does prefer the crib, though).  And she is so fat*, so alert, and like I said so happy.  This is big, since my other kids were under the 5th percentile for weight.  Levi was negative, actually.  She also started crawling 4 months earlier than my other kids.  Not to compare or anything, but I really see her as so much healthier.  It's our diet, I'm telling you. 

The one thing, is she's still a terrible sleeper.  TERRIBLE.  I don't blame that on attachment parenting, though, I blame it on her reflux.  Refluxy babies are notoriously bad sleepers.  My other kids as well.  With Levi I was so sleep deprived I slept walked off the bed and sprained my thumb (the ER admittance people thought I was lying and Jason had abused me).  With Dana I was so sleep deprived I suffered from mild depression on and off.  With Camille, though, it all seems to work out. Yeah, I'm tired (she wakes up around 5 times a night still), but it's do-able somehow.  (Why am I up in the middle of the night blogging?  Because Jason's out of town and I have no self-control to go to bed).  Anyway, I did sleep training with Levi, and he started sucking his thumb.  It worked like a charm, but with Dana, I had to do it sooo many times, and I believe that was a major factor in her anxiety.  Nothing's worth that, so I just accept that Camille's a little baby, and she doesn't need me to "train" her to do anything.  So I wake up with her.  And when I get her gut turned around, she'll fix herself.  I know, sounds like a fairy tale, right?


Okay, she's not smiling in this picture, but I think it's funny how we go places, and I have all these pictures of the big kids, then I realize Camille is strapped on me, and I should probably document that, yes, she was there, too.  So I turn the camera around.  We went to Disneyland when she was a couple months old, and I bet we have less than 5 pictures that actually show her face :)  She was just tucked inside the wrap sleeping the whole time.

This stage makes me laugh so much.  I remember it well from when Dana was a baby.  "MOOOOMMMM!  Camille's getting the train!  Stop Camille!!!!!  AHHHHHH!  She's coming!!!!!!  MOOOOMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!"

I love my Camillie.  She has her daddy wrapped around her little finger.  She does all of us. The kids adore her to pieces.


And I just had to include this one of Jason with the distorted setting on the camera.  Ha ha.

*I thought I should include, after my post about saturated fat, that Camille is fat, but I am at my regular weight - the weight I was when I got married, and the weight I've always been except while pregnant.  And I eat a lot of real fat :)
*Also, nothing against skinny babies.  I actually love them, and think it's adorable.  But at least for my kids, I think underweight was a sign of malnourishment, despite exclusive breastfeeding.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

A tiny piece of what I believe nutritionally. Please read and pass it along.

I have changed so much in what I believe is nutritious.  Growing up, and really until 2 years ago, I very much followed the food guide pyramid.  We ate whole grains, fruits, veggies, beans, meat, a little bit of cheese, skim milk, and small amounts of extra virgin olive oil and canola oil.

Then, I started to see deception in the FDA.  I could write on and on about that, but I want to get to the FAT of the issue.  Anyway, I came to the conclusion that if you believe that God or Mother Nature knows more than man knows, you can't believe the FDA, because they promote many things which are unnatural.

A little over two years ago, I found 2 views - two opposing views - in 2 books.  The first was the China Study.  This is a very convincing book about a huge, huge study done, and what they found was that animal products cause disease.  If you eat more than 10% of your daily calories of animal products (meat, dairy, eggs, etc.), your chance of diseases like heart disease and cancer go up.  What's more convincing, is the study was done by a researcher and a doctor who were both raised on farms.   They argue that humans are not baby cows, and therefore, should not be drinking the milk of a cow.  We are the only species to drink the milk of another animal.   I also read research about how early consumption of cows milk was linked with an increased incidence in Type 1 Diabetes.  As you know, Jason's sister has type 1 diabetes, which puts my kids at highest genetic risk for the disease.  I am paranoid of it, and because of that I gave up dairy.  We were more or less vegetarians at the time.  I have always eaten eggs.

The same time I heard about the China Study, I heard about another book called Nourishing Traditions.  I knew it was opposite the China Study.  It highly promotes animal products.  It claims that our ancestors were incredibly healthy because of what they ate.  I brushed this book aside for a long time, because vegetarianism seemed healthier - doesn't it?  But I couldn't get it out of my head:  The pictures I'd seen of the isolated primitive peoples and their perfect teeth, etc.  I bought the book.  And it knocked my socks off.  It turned my world up side down. 

There is so much I've learned, and so much I think, and some day I think I'll make a video where I can talk about it, because I don't want to type up my own book about it.  But I do want to tell people to PLEASE eat saturated fat.  Please eat butter - and lots of it.  I really believe it is vital to our health. Of course, don't eat shortening.  But eat the skin on your chicken, don't cut the fat off your steak.  Back when I was an "FDA follower" (i.e. normal), I remember looking up recipes, and I came to a nutrition blog, and on the top of the web page was a picture of eggs and bacon.  The post was titled something like, "Why saturated fat is good for you."  I raised my eyebrows in disbelief that people could be so stupid - EVERYONE knows saturated fat is bad for you.

Well, guess what?  "Everyone" has been duped.  There is so much evidence to the contrary.  Consider the following:

1.  Breastmilk is mostly saturated fat.  Our physiology doesn't change as we get older. The ratio of saturated fat should stay about the same throughout life.
2.  Heart disease is going up.  Guess what?  Animal fat consumption is going DOWN considerably.  This is something that's hard to see, as we only see life as it is today.  We are the first group of people in the earth's history to eat a low-fat diet.  Or even a moderate fat diet.  All groups of peoples valued fat, especially animal fat, and ate of it liberally.  And yet, heart disease is largely a 20th century epidemic.
3.  If people ate these fatty foods for thousands of years, guess what that means for us?  Our bodies are ADAPTED to eat these foods.  We need them.
4.  Auto-immune diseases, cancers, autism, ADHD, depression, allergies, etc. are not normal.    A study of primitive cultures shows that these things did not exist.  We are much less healthy than we are supposed to be, than our bodies were meant to be.  And cutting down on saturated fat is part of the reason that is so.
5.  Yes, there are studies that show fat causing disease and obesity.  But they don't distinguish between natural saturated fats and artificial ones.  They also are very politically driven.  There are also plenty of good research works done showing saturated fat is good for us.
6.  Do you really think that God would tell us to kill a chicken, use it's breast, and throw out the rest because it's too fatty?  Or a cow - only use the lean meat?  It's extremely wasteful.  I can see, if you believe we shouldn't eat animal products, well, fine, believe it.  But I hope nobody believes we should eat only lean animal products.  I don't think God would make it that way.

Today I was listening to the radio, and they were saying they are trying to help the obesity epidemic, and are trying to cut down on fat in children.  EEEKKK!  It makes me so mad.  Okay, I'm not saying McDonalds is good for you.  But what is bad for you about it is NOT the saturated fat.  It's the refined carbohydrates and sodas, the preservatives, the VEGETABLE oils, etc. etc.  Anyway, the media and the food industry have a lot of power, and they control a lot of information that gets passed along.  But thankfully we live in a day where we have blogger (and youtube) and regular persons can have a voice.  I really had to hear, and read evidence of saturated fat being good for you over the course of several months to believe it.  We are conditioned from the time we are tiny that it is bad for you.  So we all think it, and we think that we think it because it's true, or it makes sense.  But we all think it because we've been taught it forever.  So I'd like to plant the first seed in your minds about this.  It may take you, like it took me, a long time to let it sink in.  But that's okay.  You may think I'm crazy now, but I'm telling you, I'm right :)  I'm just doing my part to try to clear up the lie that has been taught by the food-industry-controlled FDA to the unsuspecting doctors and nutrition experts, then passed on to us. 

So do your kids a favor, and melt butter over their veggies - every meal.  And make sure it's not margarine.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

We do lots of fun things, really.


But I never want to write about the things we're up to.  Living in a townhouse with 3 small kids has gotten me to get out of the house a lot of the time.  We go so many places, and my kids are spoiled rotten.  They are so bored when we're home.  Ha ha.

And I've been thinking a lot about education - what I want to do for the schooling of my children.  I am collecting ideas and thinking outside the box (i.e. being weird- it's what I do best, I guess.  Sometimes I surprise myself with how weird I've become).  Doing lots of research in that area, but still have no idea what I'll be doing.

And finally, because it's easy to post about, this is what we've been up to nutritionally.  I've been headed this way for a while, and I'm really doing it.   But it'll probably be a year or so until I put the details of it up on my blog.  Inform yourself of Weston A. Price in the mean time, if you're so inclined.  He's rockin' my world.  I've known about him for over 2 years, now, but am finally embracing his research. And I believe that my next baby will not have reflux, because of what I am doing now.  I have high hopes. (And no, that's not an announcement).

Monday, August 8, 2011

Dana is so smart



Levi and Dana in the backseat of the car chatting.  Jason and I not paying attention until we hear:

Dana: You're not God!
Levi:  I'm not God?  I said I'm good!

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Dana:  Are we going miniature golfing today, Mom? 
Me:  Yes
Dana:  I'm scared of Dragon Flies.  I want to stay here with Daddy.
Me:  You're scared of Dragon Flies?  Was there a dragon fly last time we went miniature golfing?
Dana:  Yes
Me:  Where?
Dana:  In the hole.

She really talks like this.  Miniature is obviously not pronounced exactly so, but I really carry on conversations with her like this.  Crazy.


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(Levi and I playing swords.  I was Captain Hook, Levi Peter Pan.  Dana walks in):

Dana (looking at me): Hi bad guy!  I love you bad guy!


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I was doing dishes when Camille woke up.  The kids were playing with the toy kitchen and heard her over the monitor and went up to play with her.  This is what I heard over the monitor w/ the 3 kids upstairs:

Levi:  Dana, go downstairs and turn the stove off [toy stove].  The fish is going to burn!
Dana:  You go turn it off while I stay here and play with Camille.
Levi:  No, Dana.  I'll stay here.  You'll hurt her.  I need to protect her.

These kids crack me up.

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Dana:  I have a wiener on my bummy.
Me:  You don't have a wiener?
Dana:  Why?
Me:  Because you're a girl. Daddy and Levi have wieners.  You, me and Camille don't have Wieners.
Dana:  Daddy said I had a wiener on my bummy.
Me:  No, Daddy didn't say that.  You're a girl. 
Dana:  Only at Kid to Kid?
Me:  What?  They don't have Wieners at Kid to Kid.
Dana: (Laugh). 
Where does she get this stuff?

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Oct. 2011
Me: Dana, you look so cute.
Dana: (Pointing at me) No, YOU look so cute!

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I came downstairs after changing Camille's diaper.
Me: Dana, why didn't you get your boots on?
Dana:  'Cause we were having a party down here!

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Nov. 2011
Dana:  Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday!
Me:  Wow, Dana!  How did you learn that?  Dad, did you hear that?  Dana, you're so smart!
Levi:  Dana, you're not as smart as me.  But you're sort of smart.  Good job!

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Feb. 2012
Levi:  Mom, how does Dad earn money at work?  Every time he does something right he gets a penny or something?

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April 2012
Me:  Levi, your primary teacher said you are really good in class.
Levi:  I know.  I get the answers right.  The teacher holds up a picture, and I say what it's about. Like he held one up, and I said, "That's Jesus and John the baptist.  Then he said, "Did your mom teach you this lesson before church?"
Me and Dad:  (Laugh)
Levi:  That's weird, huh?

Friday, June 10, 2011

Maybe I should re-name my blog "Erin's Down with the Food Industry Blog." Catchy?

Just had to post this after my last post about Levi and Monsanto. 

You know, I am not good at politics AT ALL.  I had a test in 5th grade on the subject, and that was the ONLY test growing up I ever had to re-take.  I hated it.  It was boring, confusing.  Just not my thing.  When I became an adult I wished I was good at it, I felt a need to do something - to be blessed with freedom, I need to preserve it.  But I still never really got it.  I think I've found my political niche.  What America is doing to our food supply is sick, sick, sick.  And we're all just accepting it, growing up with it being "normal" (because everyone eats it, and we're all okay, right?), walking around, falling prey to the industry.  Maybe someday I'll make a difference in this area.  Right now I'm just doing so for my family (slowly, but surely). I'd love to do this:

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Conspiracy Theorist

This is really funny.  Keep reading.

So, I try to teach my kids about keeping their bodies healthy.  I think if I express ideas, time and again, maybe it'll sink in.  And if they rebel, and eventually only want to eat Cheetos, I guess that's their right (hey, it's not like they're going apostate).  I believe that pre-puberty, and shortly post-puberty is the most important time to eat healthy, and it gauges your health for the rest of your life. Also, if/when the day comes that my kids have kids, and they decide that, yes, they do care about health, they will have a wealth of knowledge.  I've had to work hard for what I know and do, and I'm glad for my kids it can hopefully come naturally to them.

Well, I saw this documentary today on the site (sorry, I don't know how to post youtube videos on my blog), and I thought it'd be fun to watch part of it with Levi during Dana's nap.  So we did, and he was super interested.  I had to explain it all to him, so I explained, "Monsanto is a bad company.  They put bad things into our food.  They know that it's bad for us, but they do it anyway to make money.  And they don't want us to know about it so we will keep buying their food."  Levi ran to the fridge and got out a Clementine.  "Is this bad for me?"  "Well," I explained, "it's pretty good for you.  It's not organic.  I wish we had enough money to buy organic." [sidenote: I would normally just say yes but since the documentary was about GMOs and pesticides, I was probably being too detailed with my answer].  So he peeled it and started eating it and he found a seed.  "Mom, look a seed!" Me: "Oh, yeah.  That's weird.  Those usually don't have seeds."  Levi sat there playing with the seed for several minutes, then said, "I think I figured out what happened.  Monsanto put it in there."  I was laughing and explained that Heavenly Father put the seed in there, but the things Monsanto puts in there you can't see.  And I'm still laughing.

But seriously, that company ticks me off.  The whole food industry ticks me off.  I wish, oh, I WISH we had the money to buy the kind of food I want to buy. Now I want to gather all my foodie friends around and talk about this documentary. It wasn't as interesting as Food Inc, just the way it was put together, but it is still interesting. Is it a date?

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Best Mothering Blog


I'd never thought of Mother's Day as being a gifting holiday, but since my wants list always exceeds our budget, I always take Jason up on his offer.  I'm getting this book for Mother's Day, since I've expired my library renewals.  It is so so interesting, but it's taking me forever to get through since I read it only while nursing, and I always fall asleep.  I want it, anyway, since it's a cookbook.

Guess what my favorite blog is?  I'll give you a hint: it's not a nutrition blog.  It's a mothering blog. Askingjane. Oh, how I love it.  I've always felt I wanted to be everything for my children, and I've always tried to keep my cool (ha ha, but trying does help), show affection, cherish them, and all that. But this blog has helped me transform my parenting in dramatic ways.  Some of her entries shock me (mostly her sleep posts), but then I find myself doing them later on.  And it's been so good.  She loves her children into doing what's right.  She doesn't discipline, hardly ever.  She teaches.  She gives example after example of how this works on her blog.  So many times when handling situations with my kids I think, "What would Jane do?"  And I can't think of how she would handle it, because "this situation is just... well, I just need to threaten."  It's true, it's hard to get used to this kind of parenting, and it's hard to see exactly how it works.  But I'll tell you, when I do it (and I'm getting better at it - have been reading her blog a year and a half), it ALWAYS works.  Jane doesn't post often anymore, so just go back and read the archives.  I think I will, too.  Happy Mother's Day!